The first step to do to solve a problem it to acknowledge you have one. Nita Strauss did, fought, and won. And she is a winner in the male world of Metal and rock. Take a look:
“Oh, no. The great thing about Alice is he’s so inclusive. He doesn’t judge anybody. We could drink a beer or have a cocktail in front of him – his wife Sheryl will have a glass of wine here and there at dinner – and he doesn’t mind; he will never say a word.”
“The only time that he would ever get on anyone – which, thankfully, never happened to me – is if it started to affect your job. If I was going on stage sloppy, wasted, falling down, missing notes, forgetting parts, I’m sure I would have had a talk from Alice.”
“But I was a really functioning alcoholic. I liked to drink; I have always liked to drink. I’ve been touring since I was a young teenager, and the only way to fit in, I thought, at that time, the way to fit in with this older crowd, was to have a beer with them.”
“And that just sort of became my crutch. That’s how I survived being a young female in the world of rock and roll. I’d be, like, ‘Hey, let’s have a beer together,’ and that’s kind of the equalizer.”
“And it wasn’t until [later that] I realized it’s actually not all that important. I have never met somebody since I got sober that offered me a drink and I said, ‘No, thank you. I don’t drink,’ and they judged me for it. And I always thought that would happen.”
“I always thought it would be some kind of weakness or something if I don’t drink. And as soon as I got sober and I started saying, ‘Oh, no, thank you. I don’t drink,’ it was never like, ‘What? Oh, that’s crazy!’ They go, ‘Oh, okay.’ No big deal. And it’s even more common for musicians to be sober than to be wild partiers now.”
I’m just a lucky guy who has chosen metal to live with for a long time. Metal changed my life for good. It made me more confident and stronger. Metalheads are naturally far away from the mass mediocrity and don’t accept impostures from anybody else. Metal is more than music, it’s a life changing oportunity!